Stop Fighting Over Stuff - AndrewMellen.com

TIRED OF FIGHTING OVER STUFF?

Are you constantly arguing with others about clutter? Learn how to get along AND get organized for good now!

YOU CAN FIND A SOLUTION TO THE

CONSTANT BICKERING

IN JUST

90 MINUTES

Are you sick and tired of fighting with kids, parents, partners, roommates or colleagues over STUFF?!

Isn't there some way the nagging, begging and yelling can stop and you can have some peace AND not be tripping over crap every day?

Wouldn't it be great if everyone in the home or office knew where their OWN stuff was so they weren't always asking YOU to find it for them?

If that sounds too good to be true, you won't want to miss this class.

In just 90 minutes, you'll get the strategy and tools you need to find common ground with the clutterbugs in YOUR life ... even if that clutterbug is YOU.

You'll get simple, practical tips you can instantly use to get everyone on board and working together ... without anyone being "the bad guy!"

Grab your access to this class and bonus Q+A recording for just ~~$147~~ $97!*

*To support you and our community during CV-19, we’re making these classes affordable to everyone with this discounted pricing.

Few things are more upsetting than walking on eggshells at home or the office—and even as you’re fighting, you feel like crap and still it seems like you can’t help yourself.

You resent constantly picking up after everyone and being the target of everyone’s anger.

And it’s only STUFF for goodness’ sake—aren’t there more important things for you all to be doing?

So why is it that stuff ISN’T a problem until no one can find what they’re looking for … and then it’s, “HEY, has anyone seen my [fill in the blank]? I’ve looked everywhere?!

And you have to grit your teeth one more time and come to the rescue. So you’re either the monster that’s constantly after everyone to pick up after themselves or the martyr to the rescue when they need you.

No wonder there’s so much simmering just below the surface …

There is a better way but you never seem to find common ground …

Add in Covid and being stuck at home and that just makes matters worse.

It’s no wonder your stress levels are through the ROOF and have been for months!

No one want to be the bad cop.

And you spend all your time either trying to get everyone functioning or just not bothering you.

And you still get blamed for picking on them or “not supporting” them …

It feels like a losing battle…

It affects your sleep and your performance at work and at home.

And it affects their happiness too … only they don’t see it.

You and your demands are all they see.

If you would just chill out and relax …

If you would just go with the flow …

If you weren’t so judgmental …

Everything would be just fine.

Except that “just fine” really means …

No one can find anything they need when they need it …

They are late or miss appointments …

They have to go back home to get the things they forgot …

You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t …

And it’s gotten so bad that all you do is argue about stuff and never even get to the bigger issues …

On top of everything else, your home isn’t organized which wastes time AND money …

It DOESn’T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY!

You can figure out ways to share space and not be the angry cop or the doormat …

You can enjoy spending time with your colleagues and family.

And the best part is…

They can learn HOW to manage stuff without YOU being their teacher or boss!

You don’t expensive therapy or to break up to end the constant arguments and disagreements causing so much friction and hard feelings.

You don’t need to end each day embittered and frustrated.

You'll get a simple, easy-to-follow process that you can use instantly.

This isn't therapy ... it's simple conflict resolution and team building ... and not in some wonky, hokey way ...
wouldn't that be helpful?!

Are you struggling with stuff, feeling overwhelmed, and can’t seem to find anything when you want it?

Or is that your partner, child, parent, colleague or roommate?!

Whether it’s you or someone you love or work with who is struggling with disorganization, you’ll find useful, practical tips and tools to live more harmoniously and still find anything you need in 30 seconds or less.

And if it’s both of you, then you can’t afford to miss this class!

You’ll get the help you need to get organized and stay in love while doing it.

Your stuff can often be confused with your very identity, and when you multiply that by two or more, the trouble really begins.

So regardless of where you are on the stuff continuum, this class will help you and the person or persons you’re in conflict with to get and stay organized for good.

You’ll learn simple, practical and sustainable ways to manage your stuff while growing closer together in your relationship.

There are simple ways to eliminate a key source of discord from your relationship AND suddenly have more time for all the things you both enjoy!

Imagine, as crazy as your days already are, trying to do something MORE on top of what you’re already juggling?

That’s a recipe for disaster. Or at least failure and frustration.
Imagine instead, a system so simple it’s barely a system.
Just a few tools and hacks that help you strip away everything from your day that doesn’t belong there.

And the best part may be that no special equipment or complicated system is required. If you have a calendar and a pen or pencil, you already own the tools you need to succeed.

You’ll learn how to focus on what’s important, without distractions or interruptions. You’ll start to recognize when you “check out” during the day and how making “no choice” is still a choice—and a choice that doesn’t serve you.

So you can return to living your life aligned with your values and without stress. For good.

Here's just some of what we’re going to cover:

• How to resolve “stuff” conflicts at home and work without blame or shame

• How being organized creates more time for intimacy

• How to handle sentimental objects from past relationships and childhood

• How to blend your “stuff” and still stay friends

• How to stop a fight about “stuff” before it begins while saving face

• How to keep the focus on your life together rather than the clutter

• How to motivate colleagues to tidy up instead of badgering them

• How to support new habits and foster better choices without trying to win

and so much more.

• How to resolve “stuff” conflicts at home and work without blame or shame
• How being organized creates more time for intimacy
• How to handle sentimental objects from past relationships and childhood
• How to blend your “stuff” and still stay friends
• How to stop a fight about “stuff” before it begins while saving face
• How to keep the focus on your life together rather than the clutter
• How to motivate colleagues to tidy up instead of badgering them
• How to support new habits and foster better choices without trying to win
and so much more.

Here's everything you get ...

HD recording of class taught by “The Most Organized Man in America”
The same relationship training Andrew’s taught at Omega Institute and NY Open Center
365 DAYS ACCESS to the video recording: over 90 minutes of in-depth training
BONUS Step-by-step “How to Resolve Stuff Conflicts” Guidebook
BONUS “Stuff That Can Go Now” Guidebook
BONUS recording of Q+A session directly after the training

Grab your access to this class and bonus Q+A recording for just ~~$147~~ $97!*

*To support you and our community during CV-19, we’re making these classes affordable to everyone with this discounted pricing.

Ginny Freeman

Andrew’s concepts and coaching were invaluable in helping my husband of just a few years and I get control over the clutter created by the yours-mine-ours stuff as we merged households.

Using his tools and suggestions, we emptied 11 storage containers—and we are still married AND still speaking! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Gary Henderson 

My partner and I had become stuck and could not decide on anything other than working with Andrew to break our impasse and get back on track.
Andrew’s remarkable organizational gifts, along with his sharp skills in diplomacy, completely reimagined our garage conversion and our relationship.

We now have a visually stunning sunroom AND continued harmony at home. We can’t thank him enough!

Ilene Wolf

Andrew’s practical approach to stuff, disorganization, and relationships is creative, powerful, and extremely effective—it even makes the work easy and fun!

As a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist, incorporating his tools and resources has improved my practice.

I highly recommend Andrew and his techniques and program to my clients and anyone else struggling with, as Andrew would say, “too much stuff and not enough time!”

Meet your instructor

Andrew Mellen

“The Most Organized Man in America”

Andrew is the best-selling author of two books: Unstuff Your Life! and The Most Organized Man in America’s Guide to Moving.

He has been a professional organizer since 1996, and he has helped over 150,000 people get and stay organized.

With so much uncertainty right now, Andrew is super excited to share this challenge and for the chance to help you, too!

Meet your instructor

Andrew Mellen

“The Most Organized Man in America”

Andrew is the best-selling author of two books: Unstuff Your Life! and The Most Organized Man in America’s Guide to Moving.

He has been a professional organizer since 1996, and he has helped over 100,000 people get and stay organized.

With so much uncertainty right now, Andrew is super excited to share this challenge and for the chance to help you, too!